Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... and Start Speaking Up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, and Unapologetically Being Yourself by Dr. Aziz Gazipura is an empowering self-help book that helps readers break free from the cycle of people-pleasing and self-doubt. Through actionable advice, psychological insights, and practical exercises, Dr. Aziz guides readers toward building self-confidence, setting boundaries, and embracing authenticity.
With humor and compassion, Not Nice addresses the societal conditioning that teaches us to prioritize others at the expense of our own needs. By learning how to say no, express opinions boldly, and reject guilt, readers can reclaim their lives and experience genuine self-respect and fulfillment.
Why Not Nice is a Must-Read
Practical Guidance for Self-Empowerment
Dr. Aziz provides actionable strategies to help readers stop people-pleasing and assert themselves confidently.
Encourages Authentic Living
The book inspires readers to embrace their true selves and break free from societal expectations that stifle individuality.
Addresses Common Struggles
With relatable examples and compassionate advice, Not Nice tackles issues like guilt, fear of rejection, and difficulty with confrontation.
Memorable Quotes from Not Nice
- "Being nice is not the same as being kind. Kindness comes from strength; niceness comes from fear."
Translation (Sinhala): "යහපත් වීම යනු කරුණාවකින් ආරම්භ වූවක් නොවේ. කරුණාව ශක්තියෙන් එන අතර, යහපත් බව බියෙන් එනවා."
Translation (Tamil): "நல்லவராக இருப்பது இனியவராக இருப்பதற்கில்லை. இனியவை பலத்திலிருந்து வருகிறது; நல்லவைகள் பயத்திலிருந்து வருகிறது."
- "Your value doesn’t come from others’ approval it comes from within."
- "The most powerful word in your vocabulary is 'no.'"
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About the Book
Title: Not Nice
Author: Dr. Aziz Gazipura
ISBN: 9781647430449
Publisher: Center for Social Confidence
Published Year: 2017
Number of Pages: 400
Binding: Paperback
